I've had trouble sleeping in the same bed as my partner ever since I started dating (5 years now!).

It's the worst in new relationships when I stay at his house, but it still happens nearly every night, even if we've been spending the night together for a while, and even when we're sleeping at my house. This has destroyed several relationships, because I start getting irritable and just want to go home alone every night.

I can sleep in the same bed with platonic friends who sleep quietly, but ANY noise in the house or movement from a boyfriend keeps me up.

Does anyone else have this problem?