I hope someone can help. Me and my boyfriend started having sex 3 years ago, but only for the past year has it been on a regular basis. About once a week, twice if we're lucky to get the alone time. Our problem is, is that he can not cum inside of me. He never has in 3 years. After about an hour, we tire and I use my hand and oral stimulation to finish the job. This only takes about 10 minutes max. What could possibly be the problem? Too embarrassed to get professional advice. He's amazing in the way he pleases me, I just want him to feel that same thing. We're both worried about it and anxious for it to happen for us.

Maybe he doesn't like anal sex?

Sounds to me that he also needs sexual stimulation prior to penetration but gives to you and then you try to "finish it" 10 mins?

Perhaps you need to start saying words, what your loving, that feels so good, whilst he's doing it to you.

PERHAPS you just lay there love it all and he's just well hello?

So what will be your suggestion to decrease the Intercourse Ejaculation Failure?

Any suggestions?