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Old 03-07-2008, 11:45 AM
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I've dated both types of women.Women who like porn and women who hate it.I've also introduced some of these women to porn who have never seen it and observed their reactions.How many of you guys have had this similar experience?

I was in a relationship with this girl many years ago.VCR's had just gotten affordable then and porn on tape that you could view in the privacy of your own home was new.The girl I was dating said that she had never seen a porn film before,so I obtained two classics on VHS."Deep Throat" and "The Ecstasy Girls".

Her reaction was with a little bit of the "ewwww" thing,but more often than not,she looked at the screen with curiosity,every now and then saying something like,"I just don't see where the excitement is," or "What's the point?"

Over the years,I've tried this experiment with various women,and this reaction(that is with women who had never seen porn or indicated that they disliked it) seems to be universal.
During viewing they talk bad about the porn,saying how stupid or disgusting it is,yet as soon as the tape ended and the TV went off,these same "prudish" women darn near wrecked my clothes trying to tear them off of me.
Someone want to venture a guess at what's happening here?I mean,if they were really turned off by the porn,wouldn't the idea of sex at that time,as a result of porn's influence be equally repugnant to them?
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I've dated both types of women.Women who like porn and women who hate it.I've also introduced some of these women to porn who have never seen it and observed their reactions.How many of you guys have had this similar experience?

I was in a relationship with this girl many years ago.VCR's had just gotten affordable then and porn on tape that you could view in the privacy of your own home was new.The girl I was dating said that she had never seen a porn film before,so I obtained two classics on VHS."Deep Throat" and "The Ecstasy Girls".

Her reaction was with a little bit of the "ewwww" thing,but more often than not,she looked at the screen with curiosity,every now and then saying something like,"I just don't see where the excitement is," or "What's the point?"

Over the years,I've tried this experiment with various women,and this reaction(that is with women who had never seen porn or indicated that they disliked it) seems to be universal.
During viewing they talk bad about the porn,saying how stupid or disgusting it is,yet as soon as the tape ended and the TV went off,these same "prudish" women darn near wrecked my clothes trying to tear them off of me.
Someone want to venture a guess at what's happening here?I mean,if they were really turned off by the porn,wouldn't the idea of sex at that time,as a result of porn's influence be equally repugnant to them?

All women are sexual beings. And, if your dating them, they don't want you to think for one minute that they've been with a 100 guys and are experienced.

But by watching Porn, giving the impression that they are not that impressed, but then reacting with you, allows them to believe, that they are only " reacting to YOU", and therefore are still " good girls"....

I call it " shyness".
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Hello Riconus,

Thanks for replying this thread...

Can this be the real reason that women dislike the porns...?

Or they really dont like that....?
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Hello Riconus,

Thanks for replying this thread...

Can this be the real reason that women dislike the porns...?

Or they really dont like that....?
But your talking about those who acted prudish and then were all over you after.....

Now your talking about they don't like them but still are all over you after?

So either your one hell of a looker, that they just can't wait for it to be over so they can jump you or?

But, take out that they try to jump you after, as you say, no not all women like porn they think that the women are degrading themselves and don't see it as a sensual, sexual act, smutty and ****ty.

Doesn't mean that they don't like to see if there is a tip they can pick up, or see something they know they shouldn't be seeing.

If they were "that prudish" they would walk away in 1 second, or give you the evil eye and leave.
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Can there be any chances to know who is prudish? are there such ways?
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Can there be any chances to know who is prudish? are there such ways?

Either you like my brain to go into over load, by asking questions after answers, or ................

Doubt that any man would brink a NUN home to watch a PORN movie, or a woman who dressed with her skirt to her ankles and buttoned her top to her head!!!! To me either, would be perceived to be Prudish.

Secondly, gee, every woman "deep inside" is A WOMAN... Takes one hell of a man, trust, and deep love, for her to blossom and open like a flower if you know what i mean.
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Can there be any chances to know who is prudish? are there such ways?
Big fat NO!!!!
Sexuality is a personality trait. If you can appreciate your partner and get them to open up...who knows.
A seemingly 'prudish' person is for the most part timid about sexual and intimate matters. If you can both get to understand what the other wants....watch out!
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Hello Riconus ,

I think you are right and agree that the sexuality is the personality trait...

please stay connected with our forum ...
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Hello Riconus ,

I think you are right and agree that the sexuality is the personality trait...

please stay connected with our forum ...
That would actually have been liquid snake....... I'm sure he'll stay connected somehow.
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