bw19_67

my wife and I have wanted to try PEGGING for a while she first brought the idea to me and i have become cofortable with the idea..to be honest I didn't even know it had a name until now, does any one have any suggestions to get us started?

GsPot

Well as most sexual acts between consenting adults, you could sart with a kiss. LOL.

Try to set a scene thats relaxing for both, you dont want any tension, so dont freak out about what your doing. Apart from the obvouis, make sure your clean and prepaired down there, water based lube. Dont select anything to large, its later you appreciate larger, wider etc. If you think you need a couple of drinks, then go for it, also get some amal nitrate, I found this amazing, but being penetrated first, not recommended as an opener if you know what I mean. Start slow and go by feel, now that works for both involved, get her to spoil you erotically before trying, both involved get hot and horny try not to get hung up about the act, it is both trust and a level of true intimacy. Rimm her first and dont be shy get in there and get her hot, cause it feels as nice for her as it does for you, dont get upset if she shys away from it, remember if you both wish it to happen then it will. Conversation is paramount. The first couple of time we did it I got embarrassed and thought my god shes gonna think Im gay, weird etc, but upon talking we got very turned on by the act. My ex loved to watch me wack off, and lose it watching me come. I was on the verge of comming once and she demanded I **** her ass and cum inside her, I didnt blink and eye, straight in 5 pumps later and I had a convulsing female on my hands that dug her nails into my ass cheeks to get it in deeper, needless to say comming together is the ultimate goal.

jsmithxx

I do agree with GSPot..Thanks for information..

Heatwave

Must be a.w.e.s.o.m.e, never happened to me.

mjcobxx

ohh.. hope for the best then..

liberatedguy

I have tried (and very much recommend) pegging.. My ex and I used to love it and the added closeness it brought to our relationship.. (is that a contradiction?)

anyhow, you wil find that it is not simply a passtime for the "gay curios" but can be a very effective role reversal in any relationship.. that this isnt just a passing fad, or for the sexually perverse.. give it a chance, before you knock it...


Macho man Raaandy savage.

smartguyswin

Hi everyone, this will actually be my first post!

I am 18 years old with a slightly older girlfriend, who I've been with for the past 2 years. We have been living together for about a year now, and have began to explore ourselves and each other sexually.

We've always been into trying new and different things and we are very open with each other about it. A few months ago we got into trying out anal- me giving it to her. A couple... interesting nights proved to us that anal wasn't really our thing- she said it hurt.

We recently came around to trying it again, having both learned a little bit from our experiences and trials. We also recently were forced to move back in with our own parents, as money was stretched too tight etc etc etc, and now we arent around each other nearly enough. It feels as if we never get any alone time anymore.

The other night, we managed to get a house to ourselves (her parents passed out drunk in the basement)- after nearly a week without sex. (coming from 1-2 times daily).

Needless to say, we had an awesome night. She surprised me in many many ways. She took the initiative, and we had amazing anal sex. In the past, we only tried a slow, spooning position anally, which i THINK may have made it a little TOO tight for the both of us, but the other night, she actually mounted up and rode it out, and then let me bend her over and play rough.

I'm getting to my question, bear with me. This is all relevant.

A few months back when we were having our year long sex-capade, she surprised me one night. I was very tired, i had to get up for work in 5 hours, but still in the mood- so we were goin slow missionary, when i was surprised with a wet finger somewhere i was NOT expecting... ive never felt anything as amazing and intense in my life.

I was also really embarrassed that i enjoyed it, even though she said it was nothing to be ashamed of because it was supposed to feel good. (she read the idea in cosmo she told me)

Time to wrap everything up!

Her playing with my erm.. rectum (appropriate word?) was a one time thing because i was so embarrassed and she didn't want to make me upset i guess. But after the amazing anal we had the other night, i've just been thinking of new things... and I actually saw that Weeds episode with the pegging scene in it.. and i've just been thinking about it.

I really am interested and excited about trying new things, and i've never been ashamed to talk to her about things i want to do in bed. But this is one thing I really don't know how to break the ice about and talk to her. She honestly said once that she wanted to bend me over and **** me in the ass... but how do i tell her that I WANT her to! I think i might have to just bite the bullet and be done with it.. i know she'll go for it after a few giggles and teases.

Ok, this post might have just been that i wanted to tell SOMEONE about my erotic secret desire. It really doesn't need a response unless you have a little advice for me.

smartguyswin

well **** i was wrong.

She actually fought with me about it. All I did was suggest trying something new again, and well, she made me feel about as bad as I felt when i was keeping it a secret.

She said that "You ****ed up everything about how I look at you". apparently, by doing something dirty with the person I love, means i'm gay and 'not manly'.

SinisterUrge

Well, that was an interesting turn of events over the space of two hours.

str8bloke

My wife and i have been enjoying pegging for some time now, but it did take a while for both of us to be comfortable with doing/receiving it.
We both had to get over the "GAY" thing, her fear that i might be and mine that she would think i was lol.
Pegging has the reputation of FEMDOM and Punishment and the woman taking the Dom role to get some back.. Blah Bullsh*t
My wife doesent enjoy the DOM role and neither do I
It doesn’t matter which way it’s going (Me in her or her in me) it’s always with a lot of feeling a love for each other.
It will take some time for both of you to be comfortable with pegging, my wife and i took over a year from first talking about it to doing it, and then only 3 (awkward) times in the first year.
Now we are very comforable with it, me asking and her doing.
She has her toys and scenarios and i have mine.

Remember the top tip ... “LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND"

I hope this helps