A great way to spice up an intimate moment would be to "play out a theme", either one or both of you can take on a role that you would both feel comfortable with, you could use your surroundings and space to create the required atmosphere, you can even hire costumes and uniforms to add a little more sensual glamor and excitement to the occasion. You can even play around with the lighting and select some background music to work alongside the theme, there are many styles you could choose from and fancy dress stores stock many different costumes, some of the real tasty outfits would be the Roman toga clothing, Cleopatra, doctor, nurse, Hawaiian skirt, Hollywood, the wild wild west, it can even be humorous dressed as Dracula, a gorilla or even Gothic style.

The evening doesn’t have to be fancy dress, it can involve ’decorating yourselves’ with your favorite foods and in turn slowly eating the dishes from each other (be careful that the food is not piping hot when placed on the body) this can be very erotic with spicy sauces and creams, once the meal has finished then the two of you can have a warm soothing bath together then later make passionate love. It’s worth discussing and finding out the fantasies you share between you, plan it and then go for it, it’s adventurous, exciting, thrilling and mind blowing and once you start you just can’t stop being creative, always looking for new themes to try out.

Professional guitarist, songwriter and musical director residing in Kent, United Kingdom, currently writes for magazines and ezines between tours and music workshops, music styles include jazz, soul, rock, blues, funk, latin and pop.