married before don't know how to make love to a woman. You know, this has got to be the most frustrating thing for us. Men, if you ever let a woman know you've been married before, she automatically thinks you know how to please a woman in bed.
I once made love to a guy who had been married before. No offense to him, but the love making was so bad. I wanted to get up and leave. How can you have been married before and made all of that love and don't know how to please a woman in bed. Someone explain this to me.

That may be why he's divorced?

Hello Riconus,

Do you have any other ways that can please the women in the bed...

Really can it be the dreason for the divorce?

Any suggestions?

No, divorce comes in many shapes and sizes and reasons and logic.

Take out the logic and go with feelings and there won't be a divorce.

Communication is the biggest breakdown, however, remember you can't change someone either, if they "won't communicate" then it "wont" happen.

A Golden Rule:- Only look for men who show "Passion" in other areas, before you go to bed. Not " hobby passions" Passion.. And, if they can look you in the eye, smile at you, take a step close to your body, "in your space" and you can't quite move away without looking like you are, and you feel a little nervous", and excited, you can bet that he'll be good in bed.

Other ways to please a woman in bed?

She, has to know you desire her, lust after her, think she's sexy then she'll be "waiting" almost begging for it.

Never go straight there. Not with your tongue, not with your finger, not with your ****... A woman holds Passion, so start with the kissing and touching, without " touching" and keep her on the edge of not knowing what you are going to do next, or when.

Hello Riconus,

Thanks for replying this thread...

That isreally some nice ways ....it will work....

Can there be some possiblity that women think about you that you are with her just for sex not for love?

Any suggestions?

The only way a woman will think you are there for sex only assuming that is your question, is if the only thing you do, talk about, utilise in your body language is purely and solely sexual.

If that is the case, she will feel betrayed, dirty, un-loved and out of there, or not willing to give any more.

If a man remembers " they are emotional creates" and he wants lots of sex, then he has to open up a bit, and add to her emotional well being.

That could be:

1. A smile as he walks past, touch on the arm, buttox even but keeps walking, soft touch.

2. Romance - a small gift, flowers for no reason.

3. Letting her know she looks nice or asking her how her day was even better.

4. Thanking her and telling her that the meal was great, really tasty, or one of the best he has had.

Basically, compliments and touches that don't relate to sex will make her also feel love.

And, a woman in love.... will give love excessively in ever fashion including the bedroom, and not just sex, therefore with emotion and feeling, so your penis will get a really nice, slow, long workout instead of a quick sex one for instance.

Now that's worth giving a bit i think.