I look at sexuality as a journey of self-discovery and intimacy. That has led me to do many different things with many different kinds of people, both men and women. My preference, however, is to be with a loving man and have tons of girlfriends (friends only), straight and gay.

There's just some kinds of relating that can only be done with women, and vice versa. I prefer the physicalness and frisson that comes from opposites uniting. When I was younger, however, I found a lot of healing by uniting with women and their like energy. That made it easier for me to accept men.