I am finding that I seem to have sex with most of the guys I date, about 2 weeks into the dating time. I dont seem to know how to not do that, its something i want to do, it has physical and emotional bonding that comes with it. i have only had sex with 6 ppl over the course of 4 years, my whold life,but im wondering with the more guys i date and it doesnt work out, the number will increase. how do i just say no??