well, i have this problem. I never achieved orgasm or feeling anything if I do sex or mastrubating myself. but if I use water in the bath from the fountain I have strong climaxes..

my husband tried to do longer sex but no result..
maybe its my husband's problem? he climaxes within 2 minutes.. if lucky within 5 minutes if he try to hold it.

But maybe its my problem? I have same problem if I hand mastrubate myself, no matter how long i try do it even on clitoris. Also my husband besides trying several positions, he tried oral sex with me. still feel nothing!!!

What could I do? This frustrates me!!

Strong climates where? Clitoris? I find hot water in the shower if i rub myself and feel the "heat" i can have a clitoris orgasm.

Your husband needs to learn how to have "mini orgasms" therefore he can last a lot longer, rather than just "going there" no good for a woman!

Do you "rub" yourself, i know in my youth i used just 1 finger and baby oil ( how nieve), different if your palm and 4 fingers are involved.

Plus, add something that can penetrate you at the same time, but only 3 inches in, whilst you materbate your clitoris, that is the sensational spot, then take it in deep, thrust and bring it back to the 3 inch part, and continue, for ever hold your peace.

Guys need to do this to a woman as well, don't be hungry Take your time, tease in the spot that a woman needs and thrust deep to the spot that she yerns for.. She may just ejaculate and wonder what the hell happened, whilst you then go full on doing your thing..

So different on a Mens Forum i couldn't say any of this

Bye for now

There is no harm to open up your thoughts so that one can get true idea of what one can feel.

I am a great believer of "visualisation" if you are to tell a story of any description, ensure the reader can visualise it, that way they can see a clear picture.

So yes, it is enlightening to be able to "speak".....

In re-reading "Harry's", fountain of water.

Brings to mind, he perhaps knows some women's little secrets...

Yes, the force of the water "from a tap", heated not warm and of course not straight hot water, on that particular part of our bodies does result in a clitoris orgasm.. I think it is the force and heat combined, not one or the other. Same as a spa bath from the jets.

That is a cheeky thing to do when other's are around and don't realise your doing it, lol....

Of course i have my own spa bath so no necessity...

Mmmm... I do also recall one of my ex partners walking in once and it was a turn on for him to see this.

really? that's very nice.

No question mark sorry reality.



Really? That's very nice.

Don't you want some of our trait secrets?

It surely will allow a man whom does not know a woman and how she masterbates, or needs, in that understand?

Spa Bath ! ric your giving away your secrets ....sounds fun..

I dont have a spa bath, but i do have sports shower , i stay in there for one hour !! oops ...now should i have said that !!

Well the thread was pertaining to "women" masterbation, no one knows me, and guys probably think we just use the palm of our hand, no visualisation what so ever as to what other ways excit.

I was suprised to read the hot water, as not sure where Harry picked that up from I thought that was "women's business" secrets... lol.

Sharing that's all,

So i think you can add the 1hr bit.

Well guide your husband ti have a mini orgasm , that will feel good too...

Hello guys,

Thanks for your prompt responses. They helped a lot

Thank you again.