I'm writing to ask a HUGE question! I've been married for 3 years now, and my wife and I have not been able to have sexual intercourse. We both married virgins, so didn't know what to expect. Upon trying to have intercourse, my wife said insertion hurt, and felt like it was burning. At first we thought it may just be the hymen, but after a number of attempts, nothing changed. After being checked by the obgyn, there was no visable signs of any problems, she said the hymen seemed to stretch normally. We could tell she didn't really believe my wife. As far as she can recall, she was never molested, so we've ruled that out. After doing some searching online, I came across
http://www.clearpassage.com,
and learned a little about abdominal adhesions, and it made some sense. Shortly after birth, my wife had to have her intestines untwisted or something, and they took her appendics. She has about a 6 to 8 inch scar on her stomach that "pulls" in. So I wondered if that may have something to do with her problem... They say on the site that even though the incision was above that area, adhesions could have formed that now affect her vagina. Seeing how much the Clear Passage treatment cost, I began to look for alternative treatments, and I came across
Abdotab - Your Guaranteed Abdominal Adhesions Treatment
They claim that their product removes abdominal adhesions. So here are my questions. How can we verify whether or not she actually has adhesions? Is there any way to make her scar dissapear? Has anyone used Clear Passage's services? Has anyone used Abdotab with any success (there really wasn't any testimonials or clinical info on their site)? Or, has any other woman had a similar experience and found a solution? Also, has anyone used castor oil packs for this sort of thing?
As you can imagine, this problem has had a number of affects on the both of us so any help would be greatly appreciated!