Also note that a threesome denotes open sexual contact between all members involved. If two people are having sex with a third but not each other, than it is not a proper threesome.
example: Two men doing the same woman at the same time (orally/vaginally or vaginally/anally) but with no direct man-on-man action is a 'gang-bang' not a threesome.
Bystanders that don't participate, or only masturbate do not count towards the toal numbers involved (its not a threesome if one person is the cameraman)
Likewise two or more couples engaging in sex in close proximity but not with each other is not a foursome (or sixsome, etc), but group sex.
And its not officially an orgy until you lose track of how many people are taking part.