Now that you are a little more comfortable with the fact that it’s ok to be interested in anal sex you can start exploring your ass. If you’ve never had any experience with anyone playing with your ass you need to explore a bit on your own and see how it feels and get comfortable with the idea. In order to enjoy anal intercourse you have to be able to exercise control over your mind. If you are tense then your ******* is going to be closed tighter than a drum and nothing will be able to penetrate it. It is incredible just how big a part your mind plays in anal intercourse. I have experienced anal intercourse on numerous occasions and have enjoyed it thoroughly, however I have found that the times I’ve enjoyed it the most have been those times where I’ve been the one to initiate it. It seems to be so easy then, where on other occasions it is a bit more of struggle to get into the right frame of mind and relax.

1. Analingus/rimming is a great warm-up

2. Lube, you can never have enough lube

3. Even if both of you are 110% disease free wearing latex gloves is probably a good idea before anybody sticks a finger in somebody's ass. Not only is santorum (the frothy mixture of lube an fecal matter) not something you want on your hands, but the edges of a fingernail can be very sharp and not something you want near an intestinal wall.

4. Use a properly designed sex toy. Or else you run the risk of your x-ray being used at the hospital radiologists Christmas party.

Radiologist 1: "Is that a rock?"
Radiologist 2: "No, its a potato wrapped in tinfoil"

ER Doctor: "How exactly did this Coke® bottle get lodged in your colon?"
Patient: "Um... I slipped in the shower."

*Both are 100% true cases from the local small-town hospital my sister-in-law is the radiologist at.

Properly designed toys are far less likely to get stuck or cause internal damage.

5. You may want to void your bowels beforehand.

Sure , Lubrication is must in Anal sex. It is terrible without any lub.