I am a happily married woman who has been married to the same wonderful man for 20+ years. I have a question based on things I've heard such as some young men might masterbate 4 or more times a day and yet some men only need sex once a week or even less.... I am looking for what is probably considered "normal."

My Question is this...
Q- How often do most men "need" sex?

There are 4 follow up parts:
1- How often do you have sexual intercourse in an average week?
2- How often do you masturbate in an average week?
3- How often do you "wish" you were having sex in an average week?
4- What is your age range? (By decade is fine... ie: 20's, 30's, 80's, etc.)

Thank you in advance for helping separate myth from fact!
Sincerely,
OneManWoman

I would say that most men "need" some form of sex, or masterbation daily. Yes, its definitely true that some younger men masterbate 4 times a day, and others can go a week or longer, it really depends on the man.

I would say most men in there 20s need it daily, average week roughly 3,4 times, 7-10 times/week on wanting it...i know ive been a little vague, but hopefully some of our other men members can help out a bit...hope i helped

I would say I would enjoy some form of sex 5 times a week. I get sex from my wife 2-3 times a month so what does that tell you about what I have to do most of the time. Can you answer something, if you were in my shoes how would you approach her to get her more excited or wanting it more often. I am 38 years old been married for 13 years and have a couple of other issues, she is usually not in the mood but when she is wants me to perform oral sex on her. I asked her to shave but won't and she refuses to perform oral for me.

oh man that sucks... yeah, i sometimes need some push to get into it but its great when it starts its just starting that some women need more push. Why wont she shave? Hum and she doesnt return the favor, humm. I think if you can get in the rutine of showering together, or baths together then you will want to put everything in your mouth lol, and its so clean and slippery and fun! As a woman thats my favorite place to do it!