well i've been in some sexual situations and ive noticed that as soon as we start touching each other i get hard but then when were about to have sex i lose the hardness and i dont know why how this is happening,and is there any way to fix it?

i have the same problem. i think its performance anxiety caused by fear of losing the hardness, but this doesnt really accomodate the first time. i seem to run into girls who like to recieve, but not give in return. sometimes i think im not used to being touched, so my body almost realizes that i dont need to sustain an erection if that makes any sense. i dont know of your experience and if this was helpful...you might be able to find more help if you post a thread similar to this in the ED section. goodluck

thanks man ya it does help because in that sense i have been with some girls that dont give as much as they recieve and i will look into it and see if there is a way to improve on it so thanks!