In all honesty, why do you think women even let you near their behind if they know it's going to hurt? Because you've been begging? Because she thinks that her vagina's as loose as a porn star trying to set a record for the most partners in one night? No, it's because she wants to know how it feels too. She knows that pain is inevitable, but that's part of the thrill of it all.

Do they not sell lube where you people live?

Bunch of barbarians I swear.......

I can say that you need to listen to your women.

Of course I listen. Thats how I know the first rule of anal sex is to use lube.

The second rule is to use more lube.

Then assuming you want to engage in anal sex more than once with your partner, you use plenty of lube and work your way upto penetration by slowly stretching the orifice with a finger, then two, and gradually using larger toys until the anal receiver is comfortable with something of approximate size to your penis.

Continue with this train of thought and eventually you could work your way upto anal fisting, but thats another topic for another thread for another day.

Besides this orals plays an important role in sex. Give your partner's clit and labia a gentle oral sex massage by taking it all into your mouth, as you would a nipple, rolling, sucking and licking all around. Use different parts of your tongue, the tip, the centre etc. Use lots of saliva. Do this for quite some time. The longer the better. Like any sex, oral sex goes best with lots of build up, teasing and foreplay.

Ummm.... good one. :-)

Not necessarily, if your partner is careful there can be no pain, maybe just some discomfort.. But for a lot of women (me included) sex is very painful the first time, I remember saying to people ‘I just want to get it over and done with’, but of course if you know something leads to a path of pleasure to come – the pain is something you can get over and work through. I always forget to use lube in anal and end up getting carried away, only to be soor the next day! It feels great for me but it’s different for everyone, pretty sure us ladies have some hot spots up ‘there’ tho or it wouldn’t feel that good….

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