Lost Erection - advice, help etc - Men's Health Information, Including Fitness, Nutrition, Weight Loss, Working Out & Sex

Local781 · 06-01-2009, 08:20 AM

Hi,

I am new to the forum and live in the Boston area. I am 35, will be 36 in the fall, fit, drug and disease free but last week had a problem. my gf just turned 38. She is divorced, no kids, I was engaged before...didnt work out, no kids. Both of us had dated, healed for a few years before we met. We both believe we are each others match, soulmate even.

I appreciate the input, here is a little background.

I have a great girlfriend that I have been seeing for awhile, we have the same values, want the same things out of life. We have a very hot sexual relationship, often having sex anywhere from 2-6 times when we see each other.

We do not live together yet, but pretty much do as we are together at least 4-5 times a week. Likely this fall she will be moving in which is something we have been talking alot about lately. We also have been working on starting a family....right now she is 4 days late for her period which she is always very regular. She also has felt fatigued and some nausea randomly on some days...so I guess we will know soon if there is something in there.

So here it is, the last few times we tried to have sex, I would get turned on, rock hard, then she would stradle me or whatever and I lost my erection! She has been real cool and supportive, but this is quite new for she and I and I want to fix it.

She is staying over tonight as I am driving her to airport in the morning as she is going away for work for a week.

I had posted on Craigs Rants and Raves but most of what I got were negative comments.

I appreciate your thoughts.

Local781 · 06-01-2009, 08:21 AM

oh, also I am in perfect health...really think this is psychological

tbgymb · 06-05-2009, 01:05 AM

lack of erection is a sexual disease. Its main cause can be alcohol habit, smoking, stress and anxiety etc. It can be treated with leaving bad options in life style. Its necessary to care about your health. I suggesting you just consult to your doctor before taking any option for treatment. The best and cheaper way to improve heath is exercise it maintain blood circulation in our body and take healthy and fresh diet. My friend brought medicine for improve health. Its really works you can also try this.

chimp · 08-23-2009, 04:22 AM

tbgymb maybe you should actually read his post before replying.

DUDE you have/are suffering from exactley what im going through at the moment. I know exactley how you feel. It totally sucks and feels 'so unlike the normal me'.

I think mine is psychological as well. If you manage to find a away of sorting it out please fill me in.

Thanks

Kramboi · 08-26-2009, 06:15 PM

Alot of men go through a stage where they suffer from ED, maybe this is happening to you? it is perfectly normal as most men in the world will expereicne ED once in their life. there are treatments such as if the problem persists.

Kramboi · 08-26-2009, 06:16 PM

I just wanted to add that you don't have a "sexual disease" and yes Exercise and eating healthy will help deal with the problem. You also need to release any stress or depression you may have.

Sorry I didn't know how to edit my previous Post.

Tom6565 · 11-21-2009, 04:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tbgymb

lack of erection is a sexual disease. Its main cause can be alcohol habit, smoking, stress and anxiety etc. It can be treated with leaving bad options in life style. Its necessary to care about your health. I suggesting you just consult to your doctor before taking any option for treatment. The best and cheaper way to improve heath is exercise it maintain blood circulation in our body and take healthy and fresh diet. My friend brought medicine for improve health. Its really works you can also try this.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kramboi

I just wanted to add that you don't have a "sexual disease" and yes Exercise and eating healthy will help deal with the problem. You also need to release any stress or depression you may have.

Sorry I didn't know how to edit my previous Post.

Listen to Krambo's advice, I too went thru this. One stroke and three heart attacks latter, I found out I had a problem with blood flow. All the things Krambo outlined----Go In and get checked out!

calvindoyle · 01-26-2010, 11:28 PM

lack of erection may be because of various issues like lack of healthy diet or lack of healthy lifestyle etc. it can happen to anyone. It's not a big issue. You don't have any need to worry.Try to improve your lifestyle. Take healthy diet than before and try to be fit and fine. Means to say go with some exercise also. Healthy body is necessary for having satisfactory sex. Take different-2 foods daily. Try to take all neutrients required by our body. If it doesn't work then you can go to a doctor and also open communication with your partner regarding this is also important.

Best of luck friend. Get well soon.

06-01-2009, 08:20 AM	#1
Local781 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	Lost Erection - advice, help etc Hi, I am new to the forum and live in the Boston area. I am 35, will be 36 in the fall, fit, drug and disease free but last week had a problem. my gf just turned 38. She is divorced, no kids, I was engaged before...didnt work out, no kids. Both of us had dated, healed for a few years before we met. We both believe we are each others match, soulmate even. I appreciate the input, here is a little background. I have a great girlfriend that I have been seeing for awhile, we have the same values, want the same things out of life. We have a very hot sexual relationship, often having sex anywhere from 2-6 times when we see each other. We do not live together yet, but pretty much do as we are together at least 4-5 times a week. Likely this fall she will be moving in which is something we have been talking alot about lately. We also have been working on starting a family....right now she is 4 days late for her period which she is always very regular. She also has felt fatigued and some nausea randomly on some days...so I guess we will know soon if there is something in there. So here it is, the last few times we tried to have sex, I would get turned on, rock hard, then she would stradle me or whatever and I lost my erection! She has been real cool and supportive, but this is quite new for she and I and I want to fix it. She is staying over tonight as I am driving her to airport in the morning as she is going away for work for a week. I had posted on Craigs Rants and Raves but most of what I got were negative comments. I appreciate your thoughts.

06-05-2009, 01:05 AM	#3
tbgymb Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1	Lost Erection - advice, help etc lack of erection is a sexual disease. Its main cause can be alcohol habit, smoking, stress and anxiety etc. It can be treated with leaving bad options in life style. Its necessary to care about your health. I suggesting you just consult to your doctor before taking any option for treatment. The best and cheaper way to improve heath is exercise it maintain blood circulation in our body and take healthy and fresh diet. My friend brought medicine for improve health. Its really works you can also try this. Last edited by prashant; 06-05-2009 at 05:53 AM. Reason: Outbound lnks not allowed !

08-26-2009, 06:15 PM	#5
Kramboi Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 4	Alot of men go through a stage where they suffer from ED, maybe this is happening to you? it is perfectly normal as most men in the world will expereicne ED once in their life. there are treatments such as if the problem persists. Last edited by prashant; 08-27-2009 at 05:16 AM. Reason: Outbound Links not allowed !

01-26-2010, 11:28 PM	#8
calvindoyle Banned Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 2	lack of erection may be because of various issues like lack of healthy diet or lack of healthy lifestyle etc. it can happen to anyone. It's not a big issue. You don't have any need to worry.Try to improve your lifestyle. Take healthy diet than before and try to be fit and fine. Means to say go with some exercise also. Healthy body is necessary for having satisfactory sex. Take different-2 foods daily. Try to take all neutrients required by our body. If it doesn't work then you can go to a doctor and also open communication with your partner regarding this is also important. Best of luck friend. Get well soon. Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 03-03-2010 at 11:28 PM. Reason: removed outbound link

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06-01-2009, 08:21 AM	#2
Local781 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	oh, also I am in perfect health...really think this is psychological

08-23-2009, 04:22 AM	#4
chimp Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 4	tbgymb maybe you should actually read his post before replying. DUDE you have/are suffering from exactley what im going through at the moment. I know exactley how you feel. It totally sucks and feels 'so unlike the normal me'. I think mine is psychological as well. If you manage to find a away of sorting it out please fill me in. Thanks

08-26-2009, 06:16 PM	#6
Kramboi Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 4	I just wanted to add that you don't have a "sexual disease" and yes Exercise and eating healthy will help deal with the problem. You also need to release any stress or depression you may have. Sorry I didn't know how to edit my previous Post.