Pain and Pleasure – Fantasy and Sex Play


Lets explore the possibility of enhancing pleasure utilising pain. Receiving pleasure or pains releases endorphins – a natural body rush. Combine the two and the results can be electric.

Firstly any giving or receiving of pain has to be by mutual consent and within established boundaries – safe and consensual. This is the first and foremost rule of any play.

Make time and space. Perhaps indulge in a glass of wine to help loosen your inhibitions. No more than this though – you need to remain aware at all times. Be spontaneous – try a bite on your partner’s neck, nails in his/her back, twisting a nipple. Try gently first increasing pressure if the first nibble, slap, scratch results in a favourable groan. ‘You like that?’ is a handy phrase to use.

After this the possibilities are endless. Spanking can be great fun, hair pulling very erotic – the list is only as limited as your imagination. Start slowly and gently – its called warming up. And you don’t have to inflict or receive gratuitous pain in order for the erotic experience to be enhanced. Remember at all times – safe and consensual.