Thread: How long does it take the average woman to come?

Originally Posted by Raul

I often hear that it takes women longer to reach climax. However the question is how much longer?

I have heard it can take up to 30-40 mins maybe longer.

Not from my experience.

When performing oral sex I can get my spouse off in less than a minute usually. Never more than 3.

During intercourse she'll climax as soon as I enter, and then again after 15 minutes or so.

Spouse has never climaxed due to anal.

She did climax once from me just sucking on her toes.

I as a man can only go for 7 mins then I am done. Is this too short?

If I tried one position I'd come in 10 or 15 most. But we go for a minute or two, switch positions and go another two minutes and so-on. The starting and stopping of that lets me keep it up for a lot longer.

Originally Posted by SinisterUrge

Not from my experience.

When performing oral sex I can get my spouse off in less than a minute usually. Never more than 3.

During intercourse she'll climax as soon as I enter, and then again after 15 minutes or so.

Spouse has never climaxed due to anal.

She did climax once from me just sucking on her toes.


If I tried one position I'd come in 10 or 15 most. But we go for a minute or two, switch positions and go another two minutes and so-on. The starting and stopping of that lets me keep it up for a lot longer.

That would be 1) because she is your spouse and obviously you have a wicked sex life, and assume in love with each other, therefore you know each other's bodies very well.....

A woman generally does require a good 20 minutes before penetration if she is not "in love" perhaps lust and still getting to know her partner.

15 Minutes..... how many "miny" orgasms do you have during? That's a good show and glad to see your still pleasing your woman...

Originally Posted by MyTSharp

From what little experience I have it can take up to 9 hours for a women to experience the "real thing".

To much emphasise is put on penetration, too many men have been mislead into believing all sorts of nonsense.

If your education if only pornography, just remember porn is paid employment, as far as I know women don't orgasm on a movie set, its most probably at best for them just shear pain.

If you want a women to have an orgasm you have to put a lot of time in on "reprogramming" women for orgasm, they have most probably been programmed not to have an orgasm.

Through ignorance, arrogance, selfish attitudes, our 21st century lifestyle and probably lots of other reasons, women mostly never have an orgasm.

In my life it has only been 3 women, and only 1 that had a very intense orgasm.

That very intense orgasm took approximately 9+ hours to produce, so forget about it unless you are prepared to really put the time and effort in on achieving it.

Like they say nothing comes easy.

Hope that helps.

MTS.

Is that 9 hours of penetration combined with oral, are you asleep at some stage, seeing as we work 9, sleep at leat 6, so that leaves 8.

I agree with putting in the time, but leave the programming out of it, and put in, MAN and his abilities, to bring her to climax, spend time and reap the rewards, dont you think. Programming?

Through un-educated males, non patience women have problems having orgasims.

If a man is educated he becomes the teacher!!! And a WOMAN wants to learn.

Love and trust becomes also the reason for absoulute spectacular sex, try seduction, if only 1 had it.

Sorry but my d.....k would go limp, i'd fall asleep, and she would to, 9 hours unless there were drugs involved, she'd give up....

Mmmm. I do agree with giving pleasuring her bringing her to somewhere she has never known where she is begging for it, as she has total trust and lust and desire and you have been instremenatal oh sorry 9 hrs.?

Sleeping now.

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

Is that 9 hours of penetration combined with oral, are you asleep at some stage, seeing as we work 9, sleep at leat 6, so that leaves 8.

It wasn't working at the time, she worked part time. She came home from work, I made dinner for the two of us.
That was about 7 ~ 8 then she seduced me (she didn't have to try very hard Most of the time was spent on foreplay (hand caressing), like I mean hours of it, my arms were aching. I ended up with "lovers balls" couldn't tell you what time she finally aloud me to enter her but it must have been pretty late. No oral on her just hand caressing for a very long time. Penetration finally after many hours.

I agree with putting in the time, but leave the programming out of it, and put in, MAN and his abilities, to bring her to climax, spend time and reap the rewards, dont you think. Programming?

Women I believe unlearn how to enjoy sex, secondary sexual dysfunction, the media makes you feel inadequate or for some reason women just can't let go and relax, over tired from excessive work.

Through un-educated males, non patience women have problems having orgasims.

true. Most men are just too eager to please themselves, penetration and ejaculation are not what one should be aiming for.

If a man is educated he becomes the teacher!!! And a WOMAN wants to learn.

Umm yeah .

Love and trust becomes also the reason for absoulute spectacular sex, try seduction, if only 1 had it.

Not necessarily true, a women has to be able to "let go" and I think she also needs affective foreplay over a long period of time.

Sorry but my d.....k would go limp, i'd fall asleep, and she would to, 9 hours unless there were drugs involved, she'd give up....

No, when the foreplay is affective and your highly aroused, its quite amazing how quickly the time flys

Mmmm. I do agree with giving pleasuring her bringing her to somewhere she has never known where she is begging for it, as she has total trust and lust and desire and you have been instremenatal oh sorry 9 hrs.?
? Women love sex when they enjoy it (logical) If the stimulation is not effective they lose interest. There are no conditions when making love you just go with it. When ones stimulation is affective that means you have to know how to kiss a women passionatly and know what will work and just keep pushing that button - orgasm is inevitable !!!
Sleeping now.

It wasn't working at the time, she worked part time. She came home from work, I made dinner for the two of us.
That was about 7 ~ 8 then she seduced me (she didn't have to try very hard Most of the time was spent on foreplay (hand caressing), like I mean hours of it, my arms were aching. I ended up with "lovers balls" couldn't tell you what time she finally aloud me to enter her but it must have been pretty late. No oral on her just hand caressing for a very long time. Penetration finally after many hours.

I agree with putting in the time, but leave the programming out of it, and put in, MAN and his abilities, to bring her to climax, spend time and reap the rewards, dont you think. Programming?

Women I believe unlearn how to enjoy sex, secondary sexual dysfunction, the media makes you feel inadequate or for some reason women just can't let go and relax, over tired from excessive work.

Through un-educated males, non patience women have problems having orgasims.

true. Most men are just too eager to please themselves, penetration and ejaculation are not what one should be aiming for.

If a man is educated he becomes the teacher!!! And a WOMAN wants to learn.

Umm yeah .

Love and trust becomes also the reason for absoulute spectacular sex, try seduction, if only 1 had it.

Not necessarily true, a women has to be able to "let go" and I think she also needs affective foreplay over a long period of time.

Sorry but my d.....k would go limp, i'd fall asleep, and she would to, 9 hours unless there were drugs involved, she'd give up....

No, when the foreplay is affective and your highly aroused, its quite amazing how quickly the time flys

Mmmm. I do agree with giving pleasuring her bringing her to somewhere she has never known where she is begging for it, as she has total trust and lust and desire and you have been instremenatal oh sorry 9 hrs.?
? Women love sex when they enjoy it (logical) If the stimulation is not effective they lose interest. There are no conditions when making love you just go with it. When ones stimulation is affective that means you have to know how to kiss a women passionatly and know what will work and just keep pushing that button - orgasm is inevitable !!!
Sleeping now.[/QUOTE]

Pleasant dreams.