Please help me on this one i am in a 8 year relationship and my g/f has never been satisfied with an orgasm ever. I am the second guy she has been with and the first was a virgin she never had one with him either. But i have watched her orgasm while pleasing herself. I don't understand what we could be doing wrong? Any responses would be greatly appreciated Thanks.

Alex

I heard that roughly 70% of women have never orgasmed from regular sex. Just keep at it, lots of fore-play, it'll happen

Is she making herself orgasm with her clit ? Are you "going down" on her enough ? I find my girl rarely has an orgasm unless I do it orally....and the key for her is relaxation....lots of foreplay.

Hi Alex and the rest of you guy's I hope u don't mind me being here I'm a female and thought i would try to give some answer's. I can only speak for my-self but it takes me a while to reach an orgasm now oral sex is different i cumfast. I have been with guy's not alot but never had an orgasm. Men can cum alot easier then women it could be in her head has anything ever happened to her that you don't know about. Have you tried different positions,postion pillows under her thighs. another thing is when i feel like i'm getting there i tell my boyfriend not to move cause if he does it's gone and takes me a while to get it back if you cum to fast try masturbating before ya'll have sex. My sister is 36 and she has never had an orgasms clit or vaginal.The reason she has an orgasm when she masturbates is she know's her own body. well hope that helps and keep trying

My wife was had the same problem, but I was performing oral sex on her before intercourse. Once she had an orgasm from Oral sex she never could have a vaginal orgasm. She said hert oral Orgasm was so intense shefelt like a wet rag. So we tried this, i perform oral and bring her close to an orgams, then we go directly to intercourse. She claims her Os are alot more intense and stronger this way

My wife can cum from either but they are much stronger from oral. She generally wants oral 3-4 times a week but my problem is she does not want to provide oral to me, says it is gross an degrading for a woman to put a penis in her mouth. What do all of you feel about her view?

I wouldn’t worry too much about not being able to maker her orgasm during sex. I have been with plenty of girls that cant cum form regular sex. And I have also been with girls that cum really fast. Everyone is different. A lot of girls I know tell me they can’t orgasm during sex. It’s a common thing really.

Colowolf
thats a great idea.... I think i'll try that. I have had an orgasm with just intercourse but very very few and far between. Its much easier with playing with the clit at the same time, that works, but it would be nice if it happened with just intercourse.

foreplay helps alot, make her want you.
start with really sexy kissing, and start to touch her gently, then give her oral sex, penetrate for a few moments then stop and touch her more.
after that she would probably get multiple orgasms, of course that is during sex.

HammerHead you wife needs to return the favor to you. You both need to work on it.
Angles is all I can suggest, try the Kama Sutra or Liberator pillows.