Guys - i read a lot of utter rubbish on some forums regarding sexual health issues ..some claiming to be from people knowlegeable in that field or from people claiming to be nurses ect those same people indulging in acts that put the more *vunerable* to suggestion at risk .

I work on two sites one here in the uk ..in sexual health (the two boards are physician run ) we are lucky to have here some of the best medical students and doctors in the Uk answering the questions posed on sti ..they are not based on members of the public opinions or arguments in any way shape or form just the facts ..i read so much myth about what is safe and what is not ..i would like to mention the practice of oral sex because it is seen by men and women the *safer* alternative to intercourse in fact we have here an explosion of sti chlamydia ..if this is not controlled as soon as possible its going to result in a huge number of infertile women here ..it is a fact regarding oral sex a man performing this on a woman without a condom there is risk of ghonn for the woman is also massive increase in this in the UK, along with syphilis for hetrosexuals younger women are getting this and it is a shame !! when it can be prevented ..also the woman might not be showing any symptoms of chlamydia and could of had this for many years the man can get this in his throat ..now when i see so called sex advice about condoms ..males post saying yes but remember dont put the condom on the man for oral ..i cannot believe the ignorance ..this is leaving the woman wide open to getting chlamydia in her throat also ghonn the two of these usually its common to have these together ..thats why when tested for one here you are usually tested for both at the same time ..nits easy for the leass knowlegeable to confuse a little bit of clear fluid from the tip of the penis to be "pre cum" when in fact it could easily be sti chlamydia ..there is no doubt about this men a large number of men are suffering from arthitis they have no idea the reason could be chlamydia ..as far as anal sex a woman doing this ...because of the proximity of the vagina to the anus it a risk they need to be aware of ...you can and it does happen that woman who do not have anal get PID plenty of them just by not being careful with hygiene ..you only need a small bit of bacteria from the anus to enter the vagina that can infect the woman and cause PID the same for many men who have the practice of pushing or thrusting fingers into the vagina , woman accept this often because they dont have the confidence or they are simply in fear of "losing" the guy or the boyfriend the hands and fingers of the guy must be scrupiously clean with particulary under the nails (where there are thousands of bacteria ) a lot of this is responsible for PID infections of the cervix reproductive organs ..but the main culprit is chlamydia ..becuse it only takes one partner and only one time of unprotected sex ..I have not encounted any American women who seem to have any knowlege of PID and why it happens ?? yet some claim to be health workers and they promote the practice of unsafe sex to the vunerable ..id like to know why ? becuse these woman need to know ..they are your future mothers of your children !! so i say as boring as it sounds ..never ever have unprotected oral or sexual intercourse unless both people get tested when they decide and it could be on the second date ..it takes two mins to test but i can assure you ..that will save a life time of possible heartache for a woman. The anal sex issue ..yes if a woman does that she is at risk no matter how much they have cleaned that area ..as they seem to think its ok ??? what ??? !! and they dont have a risk ..many of them do it simply because they have had kids and also lots of sex and they are baggy in that area its very unfair to encourage the younger women who have not had children and who have no need to do this to "get a man " and keep him ..thats all i would like to say using a condom or a man producing a condom if i was dating him is actually a turn on for me ! ..it shows he is careful about his health , hes concerned about mine and he has the intelligence to be aware of just how easy it is to pick something up ..condoms are not a solution in the long term but is certainly the most sensible thing to do unless both partners have been tested ...also HPV virus ..leading to cervical cell changes ..unprotected sex this is present in all men no amount of washing will get rid of it ..its due to the amount of sexual partners a woman has and if she has unprotected sex it is carried under the foreskin of guy ..there is far fewer cases of this with woman who has a partner who is circumcised ..womn should know that .

Well ...thanks for anyone whos read this ..

Thanks for the article man !