Me and my girlfriend just recently started having sex. So this whole thing is very new to me. We have only a few times now, but she never seems to be able to orgasm also. It makes me feel dumb that I can't get her to. But I understand that we are both new to this whole thing, she says in time she will. Now I'm a larger guy, bigger body than my girl. So my member is fairly large, she says sometimes it hurts if i go in to far. Any advice or tips on how to get her to orgasm to?

I don't know any woman who had an orgasm with first encounter or any of the other several that followed. Takes time is not a reflection of you or her. Just make sure you both are happy and having fun.

Don't worry unless she is. Don't go in too far, especially at first. The more turned on she is, the deeper you can go, but take care that you don't hurt her. Listen to what she has to say to make it better for her, focus on her pleasure and have fun!

I have the same problem, have her on top that way she can control depth. That always works best for my girlfriend, she can orgasm no matter what from that position.

You will figure her out. Play around a bit more next time and see what she likes, and there should be no problem. Good Luck.

Like paul said get her to go on top!

My gf loves that...she can control everything!
It will also give your gf more confidence!

Give it a go...

And don't worry about things if you have only just started having sex...everything comes in time (no pun intended!)!
You just have to learn each others bodies!!

Main thing..."Have fun!"

The more uptight you are the less fun you have therefore you end up enjoying sex less!!

True, mate ! ! !

get her off with oral sex. A large chunk of the woman population will never climax from intercourse alone, sad but true.

I do think SinisterUrge has got this "spot on" so to speak !! it is a fact ..now the thing is ,it dosent just have to be oral sex ..its important to remember every woman is different ...unique in her own way ..and what works for one ..*may* not work for another ..eg ...if say a person assumes ..ok...well from now on ..(and your single) i will give the woman oral sex and thats sure to work ...i would say by all means *include* it if thats both your wish ...but dont think it as the surefire method of satisfaction for the woman ...i would also say the same for the "woman on top" position ..i never really did understand why men say this ?? ...there are many ways to bring a woman to orgasm ..some women can orgasm by stroking breasts and nipples ..if she has sensitive nipples ...some women must have eye contact ...thats difficult if she is on top , a better position would be lying down where she is able to relax completely and her partner can explore her body ...some women like the position where the man is lying behind her then he can kiss and stroke her neck and the breasts ..the back of the neck is a very sensitive part of womans body ...but in general its best to explore the whole of the body and try to include a massage !! that is really relaxing ...some women may like to include a little spanking ..you dont have to go mad here ..causing pain but a little pain followed by a little pleasure can make the experience a thousand times better ...trying new things is a good way to go ...and its interesting to discover the ways you can bring her to pleasure ...now i think the same about a man ...not all men are the same and they have ways the woman should take her time to discover ...if a person ...the years bring confidence but in gerneral every woman is different ...and thank heaven we are !!!

Simply start with an oral sex. make her turns on with it. if you turns on her with oral sex, you can go more deep than the 1st time. For the 1st , I would only suggest an oral sex which will help you both to have an energetic and romantic sex. Gradually you can increase the growth of your sex..enjoy!!