yeah i think if more women knew this they would have alot more sex(...yes the plan is working)

Hello....she doesn't read her E-mail!! Did you tell he "You've got mail?"

Hahahahahaah yes, but I can always hope she does read it.

women who use childbirth are often making excuses. i had a massive labia tear after birth that the NHS didnt repair. i didnt have any pain relief or stiches and didnt know it wasn't normal and 5 months on. i am off to get sewn up next week (they couldnt do it before because it was left for four days before i looked down there and then i was on the waiting list). the pain wa so intense for the first few days but i couldn't wait any longer and orgasms cancel it out

i still had 69 after a week and a half just licking the clit so not to cause pain. i couldn't wait any longer than that. there is no reason i could think of that would stop me having sex.

Ryan!
how brave is that - and I think it might be quite common that in the unknown situation (first birth) you do not know what to expect or not to expect (pain in your case)! IT's great to see you've sorted it all out ;-)

thanks harry. i just believe the less you ahve sex the less you want it. its fun, its free and it feels great. 69 is also the worlds greatest and i would never want to turn that down

In addition to everything else, I find sex to be extremely therapeutic. I'd lose my mind without it!

If I sent that to my wife she would say, "See, all you want me for is sex!" Never mind the flowers I bring every week, the poem every Friday, the email "I love You" from work every day, consistent and ample compliments, a night on the town every Friday. It gets tiresome proving yourself at every turn.

I don't need any reason to have sex. =P
But those 56 don't make it any worse.