okay so i find it easy to attract girls and to talk to them but when it comes to the kiss, i can't do it. i've only kissed a girl on the lips. i've never french kissed or got off with them and they always seem dissapointed.
i don't tell them of my nervous disorder cause they will laugh at me...i don't know what to do!

heres what happened a couple of weeks ago:
me and this girl were flirting with each other all night that at the end she moved in for a kiss and i couldn't do it so i moved my head away. she didn't talk to me for the rest of the time i walked her home giving me evil looks saying that it's offensive (i don't know about that). at the end of the night i wanted to make it up to her so i moved in for a really nervous kiss, when she moved in i just gave her to pecks on the lips and she said is that all

i don't know how to kiss and its affecting my life
18 years have taken there toll, most people my age are having unprotected sex and i can't even kiss

CAN YOU HELP ME??
thankyou

Relax.

I was rubbish at kissing girls, but once you get there it's fantastic!
The best advice I can give is to bite the bullet, take your fears in hand and go for it.

Keep this thought in your mind "what's the worst that can happen?". IF she freaks out and really doesn't like the way you kiss, explain to her that she was your first kiss, and ask her how to improve. One of my girlfriends did this with me, and I've never had any complaints since.

Good luck.

yeah take it easy its very pleasurable once you go through the first one, and it tickles with your feelings.... by that i mean you don't have to be in love with the person you are kissing but you definitely will enjoy to kiss, its something beautiful to do, its intimate, safe and exciting enough....
as Jack B Nible said, dont be afraid because its your first time, just go with the flow and if the girl discovers you never kissed anyone before i m pretty sure she will be honored, just like id be ...

Try sucking on their bottom lip. Part their lips with your tounge, move your tounge along their teeth. Just have fun with it. Don't worry so much about it, I am twenty and I have never kissed a guy. It is a really hard thing to overcome.

you shoulda just told her - 'well, if you can do better then teach me!'

that is so sweet!!

**** straight! Good answer Ralph

You should just say you're nervous.
I was nervous for my first kiss but I just got stuck in.

I love my guy lightly biting my bottom lip and we like to just play about with our tounges and have a laugh.

You are lucky guys..can have comfortably
Will try to do as per your suggestions..hope so your suggestions would work for me