dude, I'm of the opinion that if you're 'not' soaked to the bone, panting, soaking the sheets sweaty, then it's obviously a 'takin it easy' lazy night.
I sweat, howl, growl, break the furniture and get her to where she does the same. If she hasn't at least broken a sweat and **** near passed out at least once, and we're not 'taking it easy' I don't feel I've lived up to doing my job....lol
you should at the very least have to wash the sheets, if you don't have to either wring them out or just toss them completely.
you know...upon reading this, it made me say '****...I sound like a freak.'