I’m 30 years old. I am in my second marriage and I have had several other relationships. They all start the same way, a strong desire to be close and exciting sex. After a few months, the desire for sex starts to wane. After a year I desire sex maybe once a week and it goes down from there. My first marriage ended after 5 years because my wife had an affair. I can't say I blame her much. I don't want my second one to go the same way. We have been married for 2 years now, and I am having trouble maintaining once a week sex. She is very sexual and would like much more. I have also been on the pill for 13 years and I have recently (3 months ago) started taking St. Johns Wort for minor depression. I have no trouble achieving orgasm once I am aroused.
How can I increase my sexual desire? Could being on the pill have an effect?

First I would like to say that the Pill has probably no part in this. I got a book called mensexualhealthbook.com when I was in the same condition. It’s provides all information about men sexual health and with the help of this book you can have a better sex life. It really worked for me and I hope this will work out for you too.
Have a great sexual life!
Bye!

Well you have to forget about that, the more you think about it more you have to involve in it , just make your self so much bizy that you never think of that...

Okay, will try to buy and read the book you suggested. Thanks for your suggestion.

Yeah, true! But when I am trying to forget about it, I feel the more I get closed to that thing what should I do?
Anyways..welcome to MH and thanks for your suggestion

You may also use natural sexual stimulant for ur sex relation.

Good one, Will definitely look at the given suggestion.
Thanks mate!!!!