Husband not interested in .sex?!! - Men's Health Information, Including Fitness, Nutrition, Weight Loss, Working Out & Sex

kelvy · 07-05-2008, 12:06 PM

I'm 20 years old, I've been married for a year, and my husband seems completely uninterested in sex. I havn't had any major weight gain--In fact, I've gained about 10 since dating him, compared to his 70. Other men still stare at me. I know I'm still attractive. We havn't had any children. No obvious reason for this. I still dress sexy, look the same way, am the same person. We used to have sex at least once a day, and he used to initiate things. Now, we don't have sex unless I'm begging for it. Any suggestions??

s.kannan · 06-17-2009, 07:33 AM

see his activities which may affair with other girl outside, that also one of the reason for not mating with you

**SinisterUrge** · 06-17-2009, 03:51 PM

Also watch for signs of depression. Depressed people rarely initiate sex.

Also is he on any medications? Cholesterol and anti-depressants in particular (cymbalta, zoloft, lyrica, etc) are big time libido killers.

imbrad07 · 07-17-2009, 02:14 AM

I think he is suffering from erectile dysfunction.Communication is a better way to cure it.But sometimes its like impossible to turn the guy on.Your hubby can go with for better sexual health.

vasigan · 07-26-2009, 11:43 AM

when ever i have sex with my wife, i very fast tried and my sperma come out very fast. sometime time i feel the sex not fullfil. pls adv me

pixiemajik627 · 07-30-2009, 02:08 AM

I have the same problem with my boyfriend. It's making me depressed. Ive told him about how i feel about it, but he brushes it off. Im tired of making the first move and always being on top...also, after we get done, he gets angry..like he HAS to get everything cleaned up, and god forbid i get cm on the sheets...I am his first...he isnt mine, does that have something to do with it? Need some advise!

RatedXSexToys · 08-23-2009, 12:33 PM

Get him some viagra, levitra or even some sex toys. Even better give him oral sex than put that woody in you and go to town.

You may be doing something wring to cause this problem since you used to have sex once a day only a year ago - back track girl!

outdoor guy · 10-24-2009, 10:18 AM

If he's gained that much weight, that alone could well affect things from his overall health perspective, lower testosterone, and self esteem. It's also a sign of depression. It doesn't mean that you're not attractive or a good person, I'd stop focusing on you. Focus on exercising together, take a nice shower together afterward, give him some nice head and help him feel on top of the world again. Buy a nice multivitamin and both take it. Don't press him into service, coax him into it.

07-05-2008, 12:06 PM	#1
kelvy Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 791 Blog Entries: 15	Husband not interested in .sex?!! I'm 20 years old, I've been married for a year, and my husband seems completely uninterested in sex. I havn't had any major weight gain--In fact, I've gained about 10 since dating him, compared to his 70. Other men still stare at me. I know I'm still attractive. We havn't had any children. No obvious reason for this. I still dress sexy, look the same way, am the same person. We used to have sex at least once a day, and he used to initiate things. Now, we don't have sex unless I'm begging for it. Any suggestions?? Last edited by prashant; 07-17-2009 at 08:34 AM. Reason: Outbound links not allowed !

07-17-2009, 02:14 AM	#4
imbrad07 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1	I think he is suffering from erectile dysfunction.Communication is a better way to cure it.But sometimes its like impossible to turn the guy on.Your hubby can go with for better sexual health. Last edited by prashant; 07-17-2009 at 06:21 AM. Reason: Outbound links not allowed !

08-23-2009, 12:33 PM	#7
RatedXSexToys Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 3	Get Him Some Get him some viagra, levitra or even some sex toys. Even better give him oral sex than put that woody in you and go to town. You may be doing something wring to cause this problem since you used to have sex once a day only a year ago - back track girl!

10-24-2009, 10:18 AM	#8
outdoor guy Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 5	wt gain If he's gained that much weight, that alone could well affect things from his overall health perspective, lower testosterone, and self esteem. It's also a sign of depression. It doesn't mean that you're not attractive or a good person, I'd stop focusing on you. Focus on exercising together, take a nice shower together afterward, give him some nice head and help him feel on top of the world again. Buy a nice multivitamin and both take it. Don't press him into service, coax him into it.

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06-17-2009, 07:33 AM	#2
s.kannan Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 2	see his activities which may affair with other girl outside, that also one of the reason for not mating with you

06-17-2009, 03:51 PM	#3
SinisterUrge Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 274	Also watch for signs of depression. Depressed people rarely initiate sex. Also is he on any medications? Cholesterol and anti-depressants in particular (cymbalta, zoloft, lyrica, etc) are big time libido killers.

07-26-2009, 11:43 AM	#5
vasigan Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 2	when ever i have sex with my wife, i very fast tried and my sperma come out very fast. sometime time i feel the sex not fullfil. pls adv me

07-30-2009, 02:08 AM	#6
pixiemajik627 Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 1	I have the same problem with my boyfriend. It's making me depressed. Ive told him about how i feel about it, but he brushes it off. Im tired of making the first move and always being on top...also, after we get done, he gets angry..like he HAS to get everything cleaned up, and god forbid i get cm on the sheets...I am his first...he isnt mine, does that have something to do with it? Need some advise!