My girlfriend and I don't really have much sex. I am the type of guy who would do it everyday if he could. But my girlfriend isn't that way, she has a very low sex drive. She has never masturbated which I think has a big role in her low sex drive. I have thought of getting her a vibrator or something so she can get in the habbit of wanting a orgasm. She also thinks having sex more then sometimes is 'trashy'. She also is like scared of her own fluids from her body it's weird. If we have sex and I'm wearing a condom and pull it out she won't jack me off because she doesn't want to get 'vagina juice' on her hands. We are both younger 18/ 18. It seems like rarely is she in the 'mood' to have sex. I just want to have sex, she'll give me a blowjob if I ask her but sex is outta the picture. Also she is nervous of getting cervix cancer from having sex, she has never had a pap smear she doesn't want to pay a lot for that and doesn't want her mom to find out.

I just want to have sex not have her give me head I wanna make her feel good too but she rarely wants it.

Any suggestions, I feel her having sex with me a lot isn't trashy it's physically intimate and loving.