hi, i'm new here. i haven't peeked around to see if there are any posts similar to what i'm about to say. i really just need to let this all out because it's really tearing me up inside. =/

so, my boyfriend and i are both 25. we've been together for a year. we've never had sex on a regular basis, which is fine, but i've noticed that in the last few months i've had an increasing want for sex. he's my 2nd sexual partner. my first was back during my junior year of college, he wanted it all the time, or course i didn't. so now i feel like karma is out to get me.

we've had some heated fights over sex. i mean, i don't want it every minute of every day, but sometimes we go 2 weeks without it. i just want it a little more often, like every other day, or god forbid - twice a week. sometimes i will ask him what i can do to get him in the mood, he'll say, and when i try he shoots me down EVERY TIME. it's really starting to devestate me because he's the only one i want and he won't help me out.