So i've known this guy for almost 2 years, we used to work together. And the first time we hooked up was a crazy night late in february of this year. He is older, about 5 years older and i was drunk and i refused to have ACTUAL sex with him, so we just fooled around. And then in mid May we did it again, after not really speaking much at all since that last time accept for maybe 1 or 2 text conversations. Yet again i was drunk, still didn't have sex, but we did everything else in the book.
I'm just curious about this, how does this kind of thing work, it is odd to me in a way, cause i'm not a guy and don't think with my dick.

So guys, explain the **** buddy fling, just for fun thing to me. Is it as simple as that, just pleasure, and thats it?
Explain to me why you would do something like that?