Have you ever fingered a girl or been fingered at a night club? The last time I was out the guy I was with had his hand up my shirt and was rubbing me on top of my jeans, he slowly started to put his hand down the front of my pants and i really wanted him to go further. (mind you i was REALLY drunk) My friend showed up and I ran away with her. I would have been really ok with him fingering me just not that openly on the dance floor.

How would I let a guy know I want him to finger me? Also, where in the club could I take him that this could happen without leading to sex?