First of these is foreplay. Rushing to sex and bypassing foreplay is like trying to play golf in an overgrown lawn. It's very awkward. With women, it's one of the most uncomplimentary things that could ever happen to them. In the game of sex, especially with women, preparation is everything. Anything you can do to seduce her imagination and heighten her senses is always most welcome. So many men, in a fit of passion, often run through foreplay and hope for mind-blowing sex only to get the results they had not quite hoped for.

God so true. I have always felt sorry for women, we have periods what's with that, have to shave legs, underarms and now there, what's with that? But i will agree, you guys do have to put in90% in order to "get it good", what's with that?

Men are in a hurry let's face it the body presents itself, they see it in front of them and their um, parts grow very quickly extremely in fact and their mind, gets carried away, unless they can train themselves to get even better sex if they just HOLD IT,not it, but CONTROL, what they don't know is the "mind blowing result" that they WILL GET, if the effort is put in.

Men also like to receive foreplay with women. Often a man is stimulated sexually by what he sees -- men tend to respond to visuals, while women tend to respond more to what they hear and feel. But not necessarily in the bedroom.

It is without a doubt "equality", no woman i feel would lay there wanting everything and not want to return, or give.

Women should understand that to receive is also to give and learn the art of giving in the fashion in which "her" man likes... using her mouth and hands, and lips.

She should also understand that he likes to be on the bottom as well, her on top and for her, it's all in her control, it's not one sided where giving is concerned.

I read a comment last night pertaining to guys feeling that they do 90% of the work and was agreeing, in as much as a woman takes longer to orgasm, or lift her heights to such a level that she is wild, a man does not take long to get there....

Absolutely also agree that a man is stimulated by sight, and women more so by "feelings" and "words", which do not have to have anything to do with the bedroom.

In a crowed bar, he will go "wow" at a woman whom is dressed classy, yet sexy, long legs, nice to the eye, etc, where she will go "wow" from his conversation, or "jerk" if it is in-different, where the man will always go with his eyes first.

Very true. It's like a poetic situation between both of two.

What I basically think is that, consider a sex as a natural activity between man and woman. Then in this, man should be behave as female at some level and woman should behave as male at certain percentage.
Then and then their performance will reach to new hight.
Try to think this in your mind also ask to go somewhat wild to your partner and then have some gang bang #@$@].

What do you think ?

|Yes ..i do agree Alvin , that men tend to respond to visuals ..but i beg to differ on women responding to what they hear or feel , that may be true of *some* women but certainly not all ...i am a respond to visuals woman ...in many different ways regarding sex . Of course we do respond to what we hear and feel but i think many women are now wizing up *Not* to respond so much to what we hear , as words are just words and it is "actions" that count !! . Us women like a bit of action!!....not just in the bedroom also out in his general ways ...fine for him to say , yes of *COURSE* i love you but many men thing ...oh il say it and as long as i say it shel be just fine !!. Nice though , if they mean it .

Visuals ??? some women keep the eyes open during lovemaking and will only make love in daylight or with the lights ON , others will only make love in the dark or dimly lighted room ...and some close the eyes ...we are all different .

Yes of course men love foreplay and i would recommend at least one hour of oral sex for the male or at least however long he wishes to last before other ways of lovemaking . Also important the woman has lots of time with foreplay and of course this need not be sexual , thats part of it but other exciting things leading up to it ...it really is worth that effort ....

Mmmm.... a bit of grammer there i have to sort through to ascertain your question.

So i am assuming you are saying, sex is natural. Women can assume the dominant role, the agressor, on top, the man submissive, in foreplay and sex " as a percentage"... As such, it is different for both, as she is in control and he is not thus bringing to different heights. (I've visualising), in my mind..

Now, why would you "ask" in a bedroom to go "somewhat wild" would you not just do? Assuming there gang bang was still with "one" partner, the partner and you are meaning fast and furious, .....


Dare-devil 2... Men look at you across the bar right? But you want to hear what comes out of his mouth next.....

Agree, visualisation is better in the bedroom than talk as well, except, when he asks you " so do you want me to f you know?", that sort of talking during i certainly accept.....

You are correct that a lot of men, walk the walk but can't talk the talk.....

If he looks like Jean Claude Van Damme or indeed is JCVD ...YESSS PLEASE ...speak to ME baby ...same goes for the J Depp lookalike ....