The ears are a noted erogenous zone, but don’t mistake them for other orifices. Soft nibbles along the outside rim, and gentle sucking on the earlobe will excite her. Sticking your tongue far enough up her ear to taste wax will not. News flash, guys … your tongue is not a penis. Thrusting it hard in and out of a woman’s ear canal—or elsewhere, see below—is just not that effective as a stimulant.