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Old 11-03-2008, 12:29 PM   #1
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Default Punishment for finding marijuana

I am not looking for any kind of sympathy
I do believe I should be punished however I don't believe this punishment is effective at all
Please do not tell me how bad marijuana is, most likely you have tried it and as much as I respect your opinion, I have researched the herb and the laws and have my own opinion about it.
This is not a discussion about marijuana.
I do not and am not looking to argue with anyone

Thank You very much for your time and opinion if you decide to respond to this.


How to start... I am 17 years old and my parents found my "stash". This consisted of about 2 grams of marijuana, a glass bowl, a scale, and another piece of parifinalia thats hard to explain but not that important. Anyways, this is the second time I have been caught, the first time at school two years ago. The punishment I recieved then was that I was grounded for about 2 months as well as having to work with my father on the weekends and community service and suspended from school for under a week. This time I got my car taken away as well as getting grounded for 2 months and having to spend time with my dad(car and insurance and all that is payed by myself). I personally think that both punishments are rather ludacris and was wondering what your views on it are as well as other ideas for punishment.
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Old 06-30-2009, 12:32 PM   #2
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and another piece of parifinalia thats hard to explain but not that important.
Grinder?, tray?, resin knife?, blunt wrapper? roach clip?, butt-head, pack of screens? Inquiring minds want to know!

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This time I got my car taken away as well as getting grounded for 2 months and having to spend time with my dad(car and insurance and all that is payed by myself). I personally think that both punishments are rather ludacris and was wondering what your views on it are as well as other ideas for punishment.
Since you're 17, and soon to be tried as an adult for future marijuana offenses, Your parents are really taking one last stab at trying to put the fear of God in you, but don't want to add to your criminal record (I'm guessing school doesn't know, and thats why you're not suspended).

2 months grounded: I'm not sure what grounding consists of in your parent's house, but two months is nothing. Compare with 3+ years of random drug tests that you'd get on probation.

No car: This is tricky. Is the car titled in your name with no lien? Are you 100% sure you pay for all the insurance?

But really you still live at your father's house, so you have to abide by your father's rules. As soon as you're done with highschool get your own place. Tell your parent's you plan on leaving the nest when you're 18 and you can spend your 2 months of house-jail learning the skills you'll need for your own apartment/single-wide: carpet shampooing and steam cleaning (and where to rent them), cooking (Theres little point in having a car, a place to live, and then only being able to offer a Hot Pocket to any sexy women that happen to be invited over), laundry, and start collecting stuff for your house (pots, kitchenware, furniture, etc).
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Old 08-26-2009, 09:40 PM   #3
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marijuana IS bad!
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Old 12-10-2009, 12:05 AM   #4
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You probalby don't want to hear this....but you need to follow your parents rules and suffer any punishment they deem fit to measure out to you. You'll be out of the house soon enough and then you can do as you please.

You knew what the consequences would be after the first time. Man up and tough it out!
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