I would just like to offer some background information about myself, I am well educated in my final year of my law studies, come from a great family and the future looks bright. Here is my problem.

I am currently experiencing hairloss (I am currently on hairloss medication), this was a big blow to my self confidence and I realised that al this time I have been basing my self-confidence on my outwardly appearance.

I have the feeling that once I do go bald I will be unable to attract women, I have had 2 long term relationships with very attractive women, one of which has recently ended. Further the hairloss affects my self-confidence as in the past I have had to look good to feel good, for instance when I perceived myself as looking good that night I would be filled with confidence however if I felt that I was not looking good that night my confidence would be down and I could not be my normal charismatic self.

I am looking for a way to feel that confidence independent of how good I may think im looking, I want to be able to shave my hair off and still be this charismatic charming guy that I am on the nights I think im looking good.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated if more information is needed please feel free to ask.