Jim99

My wife and I have been happily married for over 30 years and this is a pretty small issue but I'm having difficulty coping.

On 4 specific occasions we have gone to dances (or weddings) and my wife says she doesn't want to dance when I ask her repeatedly. Later, she will dance with another man and seem to be having great fun. It was a different person each time and I don't feel jealous but I do feel hurt. I've told her how I feel after each time but it doesn't seem to make an impact.

Would this bother you?

Tuesday

Could it be that your wife is self conscious - so when you ask her to dance at the beginning of the evening she says no, but when she's had a few glasses of something nice and starts to unwind a little, maybe she really wants to dance. Only by that time, you've already asked her and been offended, but someone else offers and she's away having a great time!

Try asking her to dance later on in the night. And while you're at it, ask her to save the last dance for you, as a romantic gesture!

CHANDLERS WISH

Take up dancing lessons and learn to be a real charmer on the dance floor.

Next time you go to a Wedding and she says no, ask another lady and show your stuff, bet she will dance with you from then on..

CW

sujanroy123

Could it be that your wife is self conscious - so when you ask her to dance at the beginning of the evening she says no, but when she's had a few glasses of something nice and starts to unwind a little, maybe she really wants to dance. Only by that time, you've already asked her and been offended, but someone else offers and she's away having a great time!

Try asking her to dance later on in the night. And while you're at it, ask her to save the last dance for you, as a romantic gesture!