Thread: Unexpected Attention

Just curious if any guys out there, especially somewhat older, married ones have ever received attention from considerably younger, attractive women and how you handled it. Not to sound like a bragger, but that has happened to me on two occassions recently at my gym. When at the gym I keep to myself and just go about my business, so I was rather taken aback when I noticed two attractive young ladies on separate occassions making obvious flirting attempts toward me. Seriously, I was not imagining this. They however did not start a conversation although I'm pretty sure they wanted me to begin one.

This was the kind of scenario that many guys would have grabbed with both hands. Although flattered, I felt embarassed probably because I knew they were young enough to be my daughters, plus I am married. I guess the only reason I bring this up, is that now that I didn't respond to them, I can tell they think I'm a real egotistical jerk. You know what I mean? You can tell some things without any words being exchanged.

Ladies (and guys), did I do the right thing by ignoring them? Or should I have at least talked to them and they would have found out my situation? I think possibly that I didn't want them to know and preferred to remain "mysterious".