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**galyaone** · 11-07-2008, 11:34 AM

Is your wife is absent minded ..what will be your reaction?

How will you behave with her..

CHANDLERS WISH · 11-26-2008, 03:21 PM

Absent minded.... Well, let's face it, it could be more that she has 10 thousand things to contend with and "forget"s..

I write post it stickers, diaries, and I still wake up in the middle of the night and remember something else i forget that I have to do, ha... I do run a business so i have a lot to contend with.

I know what reaction NOT to have, and that is "blame" YOU DID IT DELIBERATELY.

I recall my ex-husband loads of time doing this because i would ie) put the washing in the machine and "forget" to turn it on haha, he thought it was so he would help if i left it... mmm... Not at all, absent minded? Easy to forget when you have a lot on your mind.

Then there is the reverse, perhaps she doesn't concentrate, think and forgets.

I think you have to understand "why" and if she needs help in remembering such as "hon, here's a white board for the fridge, thought it would help you out putting the dates for birthdays or appointments or things you have to remember" my little gift for you.

See the situation, and offer a lending hand...

CW

**jsmithxx** · 11-27-2008, 06:07 AM

I think good understanding is must in between you and your wife... You have to always consider and understand your wife always as you have no option beside this...

Best of luck... for future

11-07-2008, 11:34 AM	#1
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11-26-2008, 03:21 PM	#2
CHANDLERS WISH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 336	Absent minded.... Well, let's face it, it could be more that she has 10 thousand things to contend with and "forget"s.. I write post it stickers, diaries, and I still wake up in the middle of the night and remember something else i forget that I have to do, ha... I do run a business so i have a lot to contend with. I know what reaction NOT to have, and that is "blame" YOU DID IT DELIBERATELY. I recall my ex-husband loads of time doing this because i would ie) put the washing in the machine and "forget" to turn it on haha, he thought it was so he would help if i left it... mmm... Not at all, absent minded? Easy to forget when you have a lot on your mind. Then there is the reverse, perhaps she doesn't concentrate, think and forgets. I think you have to understand "why" and if she needs help in remembering such as "hon, here's a white board for the fridge, thought it would help you out putting the dates for birthdays or appointments or things you have to remember" my little gift for you. See the situation, and offer a lending hand... CW

11-27-2008, 06:07 AM	#3
jsmithxx Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 593 Blog Entries: 12	I think good understanding is must in between you and your wife... You have to always consider and understand your wife always as you have no option beside this... Best of luck... for future