Sexless marriages and computers? - Men's Health Information, Including Fitness, Nutrition, Weight Loss, Working Out & Sex

**galyaone** · 11-07-2008, 10:37 AM

How many wives/spouses out there who are living in sexless marriages are married to men who are in the computer industry?

CHANDLERS WISH · 11-16-2008, 04:27 PM

??? Are you? Do you think they become computer nerds? Or is it that they are always working? which can be any job specification where over working is concerned...

Care to ask the question with a bit more elaboration?

CW

**adam001** · 11-18-2008, 06:59 AM

Yes I also noticed such a seen in the society mainly for the IT people ..

As the increasing competition of career the couples are tending to skip the sexual life and getting involved in work and other activities..
It is really very serious issue...

melisadenny · 07-13-2009, 03:08 AM

I think that IT people have not healthy relationship.

CHANDLERS WISH · 01-20-2010, 10:06 PM

Old thread but, I wonder if the same goes for married couples, whereby he is not in IT but rather, just can't get off the computer, joining various sites and ignoring his wife for the same reason.

julienroussette · 01-20-2010, 11:10 PM

hmmm... Computer science here, happily married and not sexless... I suggest you go on vacation with your other half, far away from every day worries...

**WildChild** · 01-22-2010, 10:23 AM

Depends on the person. But I have seen a lot of convo on couples breaking up due to one being glued to the machine.

**Tex** · 01-22-2010, 10:37 AM

Not everyone in IT is a computer addict and not every computer addict is in IT. I work with computers but I don't have to be on one to have fun. I like the intellectual stimulation they can provide, like when researching stuff that interests me, but it's not that important. Especially when I'm with someone, because I find the intellectual and.. uh.. other stimulation of a woman more, well, stimulating.

Then there are guys that don't work with computers but they have relationship problems because they'd rather spend all hours of the day looking at half naked elves in World of Warcraft than being with an actual woman. Then again, some guys would rather spend their day looking at naked women in online porn than being with an actual woman, so..

**caterpillar79** · 01-23-2010, 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Tex

Not everyone in IT is a computer addict and not every computer addict is in IT. I work with computers but I don't have to be on one to have fun. I like the intellectual stimulation they can provide, like when researching stuff that interests me, but it's not that important. Especially when I'm with someone, because I find the intellectual and.. uh.. other stimulation of a woman more, well, stimulating.

Then there are guys that don't work with computers but they have relationship problems because they'd rather spend all hours of the day looking at half naked elves in World of Warcraft than being with an actual woman. Then again, some guys would rather spend their day looking at naked women in online porn than being with an actual woman, so..

I agree with Tex. And yes, what he says about himself is true

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11-16-2008, 04:27 PM	#2
CHANDLERS WISH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 336	??? Are you? Do you think they become computer nerds? Or is it that they are always working? which can be any job specification where over working is concerned... Care to ask the question with a bit more elaboration? CW

11-18-2008, 06:59 AM	#3
adam001 Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 351 Blog Entries: 6	Yes I also noticed such a seen in the society mainly for the IT people .. As the increasing competition of career the couples are tending to skip the sexual life and getting involved in work and other activities.. It is really very serious issue...

07-13-2009, 03:08 AM	#4
melisadenny Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 6	I think that IT people have not healthy relationship.

01-20-2010, 10:06 PM	#5
CHANDLERS WISH Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 336	Old thread but, I wonder if the same goes for married couples, whereby he is not in IT but rather, just can't get off the computer, joining various sites and ignoring his wife for the same reason.

01-20-2010, 11:10 PM	#6
julienroussette Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 3	hmmm... Computer science here, happily married and not sexless... I suggest you go on vacation with your other half, far away from every day worries...

01-22-2010, 10:23 AM	#7
WildChild Silver Contributor 100+ Posts Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 294	Depends on the person. But I have seen a lot of convo on couples breaking up due to one being glued to the machine.

01-22-2010, 10:37 AM	#8
Tex VIP Member $Tex's Avatar$ Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 87	Not everyone in IT is a computer addict and not every computer addict is in IT. I work with computers but I don't have to be on one to have fun. I like the intellectual stimulation they can provide, like when researching stuff that interests me, but it's not that important. Especially when I'm with someone, because I find the intellectual and.. uh.. other stimulation of a woman more, well, stimulating. Then there are guys that don't work with computers but they have relationship problems because they'd rather spend all hours of the day looking at half naked elves in World of Warcraft than being with an actual woman. Then again, some guys would rather spend their day looking at naked women in online porn than being with an actual woman, so..