Today I was looking for something in our closet and found two ****** that belong to my wife. When I confronted her on it she admitted that they were gifts/jokes froma few non christian friends of hers. She said she has used them (only twice) which I am not sure if I believe that. She did not see anything wrong with them but has agreed to toss them seeing as I told her it hurt me real bad to have found them. Part was becasue of the secrecy of it and secondly was just becasue she was using them. She said she thought of me while using them but I have no way of really knowing that. I feel like in part she cheated on me in some weird kind of way.

We are both working on our sex life and I know we need to have sex more, but this event has really hurt me. Am I crazy? I know most guys would find this sexy but for me it is a real issue. I would welcome some advice, especially from a woman.
Please help!