
07-14-2008, 10:25 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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I'm a child, who are you to even say that...
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I have been struggling a lot with my wife big time. She was the third child, but basically an only child, and just recently I have had enough. She always got what she wanted and when we started dating I would let her make a lot of the decision making, because I was just happy to be with her. Since then, she has warn the pants (for the 7 years that is). I need to regain control. I have always grown up in the Church, and my Pastor warned me you want to marry someone on your spiritual level. It has seemed more of pull down then a pick up. I admit I have my short coming too, but it hasn't been much help. I play the drums for the church and the first five years of my marriage I walk away form it (for her). That was my first mistake. Every time I try to be the spiritual priest of the family now, she belittles me. I need to know the best way of handling this. I could elaborate more, but I fear she will walk in the run why I type this. I love this woman to death, and we have a beautiful son. I'm doing my best to raise him in the way of the Lord, and he love Jesus (@ 3-1/2). He thinks Mommy is always sick, because she never goes to church anymore. Someone Please HELP!!
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