[FONT='Arial','sans-serif'] My issue seems to be pretty simple, my wife and I are in our early 30's (30 & 31) and my wife seems to have little to no sex drive. We do have 3 children (3yr old and twin 2 yr olds) so I understand that she is definitely in a stressful situation as a home maker! On the other hand I have tried to express my concerns in a loving way but all I seem to get is rejection. Of course I take this personally, am I not attractive, what am I doing wrong, what could I do to make her desire me like I desire her?

She isn't on birth-control or any other drugs so it seems she just has a natural diminish in sex drive. My problem is that I cannot turn my drive off. Lust is such a battle for me because I have no sexual outlet but she seems not to care. It is as if she doesn't want to and it doesn't matter what I want.

I seek to serve my wife, and love her as Christ loved the church but we are going on 3 weeks without anything and no end in sight. Any insight into how I should deal with this and treat her would be helpful[/font]