My husband and I have been married almost 15 years. We just returned from what should have been a wonderful vacation. We were with our 2 children. We spent little time communicating. I have realized that we need to either work together to make changes or give it up. I can honestly say I am willing to try but have little drive or energy left to give. We barely communicate any longer. I have been listening to Christian radio and looking at my bible. I am thinking the only shot we have is to go ahead and sell our house and move somewhere where I will be totally dependant on God to piece our marriage back together because I've been leaning on my parents and sister as my source of life in the past year because I'm not getting what I need out of my marriage. We need to have a discussion but I'm afraid to ask if he wants to work on this because I fear that he doesn't. I'm tired of living a lie. We belong to a church and no one is aware how dire our situation is. I need you to point me in the right direction. I have only stayed in our marriage this long because I know God hates divorce. But I'm tired of being depressed and feeling like I'm in a dead end marriage.