My wife and I are having problems. Since my Mom got sick and since passed away, we have been having problems and they seem to be getting worse not better. We are both believers in Christ. It all started several years ago when I took back managing the household finances. We had just inheirted quite a bit of money from Mom. I am far from perfect myself but I thought that I couild do a better job of seeing that the necceasary bills were being paid instead of satisifing creature comforts first. I have contacted a counselor and have an appointment next month. She will not have anything to do with a counselor. My pastor has told me that if I go by myself and let her see that I am working on changing maybe then she will think again about working to save our marriage. I know she is going thru some mild depression and I know that is not helping the situation.
What kind of help can you give us?