Okay so I've been married for 4 months and with my husband a total of nine months. We recently decided to separate because he's extremely controlling and I can't take it no more. I did a little research on bi polar disorder and he fits at least nine of the thirteen symptoms. The disease runs in his family and everyone agrees with me on the fact that he needs to seek help. But he is stubborn and now we're not together anymore. I got married for this to last forever not to end in four months. How can I fix this?