I know at work I spend about 40-50% of my time there, so to develop relationships w/ ppl is normal. However have they taken that as a right to say whatever comes to mind.

I go to work w/ a different hairstyle every week, whether it be extensions, phony pony, natural style, etc. And it never fails someone always says something they don't like about the look I have. Then they have to touch my hair, and have me explain how I did it.

I be like (in my mind) ummmm I wasn't do this look for you. I am not at work for entertainment purposes. I don't go around telling them how they should look, act or dress. One guy even goes as far as to ask me to come over so he can look at my hair and my clothes to see if he likes it, making the comment "yall get so creative w/ yalls hair"

There is only 3 black women in our office, and we constantly complain among ourselves of how racist and inconsiderate ppl can be.

Maybe I should take poll at the end of the week and see how I can be a visual blessing to their eye the next week. I thought about this, should I just come in looking like everybody else and then I won't stand out so much? Because it doesn't just stop w/ the hair, they even critique my clothes. What is up w/ that?

Seriously yall what is the best approach on this, before I go off?