Share your dating nightmare stories here

Mmmm... I'm not being harsh here.

But i did join a dating site, and went on a few.

Gee, photos are old, someone else wrote the reference pertaining to who they were, one had no leg, ok, can't tell us that before meeting, but then spent the whole time talking about bleeding eyes, operations, positive, positive, self pity, but positive... ahhhh.

Lucky you get to meet where you want and can leave in your own car hey!

Thanks a lot for this exp.

Ralph- ive had a dating nightmare , its not really a nightmare, its just a few experiences but il share it with you good guys here on the forum . Really, there no humor involved just a bit of stress - for us both ...but in the end all was fine ...

I dated a guy, who had had operation for a heart problem, he was relly lovely, sweet and charming , but ralph he didnt tell me he was married .
We were in my home having something to eat and of course we kissed , he developed bad painss in his chest , which in turn he panicked , understandably so , i did too , wondering to call the ambulance , i was full of concern but he ran out of my home and said he would drive himself to local hospital ...i was in a terrible state , shaking with nerves , he would not let me take care of this for him , you can imagine how distressed i was . he made it to the hospital but he had been drinking J D whisky im sure with medication , so it was unwise and also unwise not to inform me of his marriage as if he had passed away in my home ...it would of been devestaing for his wife and also me too and i would of been having to call police and paramedics , which is usual thing in any cases of death ,...im so glad he was ok in the end.

Another time , i dated an Italian guy here a little older 62 , but i did want to improve my Italian and after a lesson we used to do a little cooking but not really romance if you understand , he also had a heart condition but he was active and used drove a nice little sports car , Taking me home one night after the meals he developed pains and sweating pains in his chest at the wheel of the car ..i remember crying for him to stop but he just drove faster down short cuts of country lanes ..no people and i was terrified we were going to crash. He dropped me home and when he got back he rang to say ...i had gas , or wind !!! and hed got rid of it with medicine for intigestion ...i was so stressed i didnt sleep that night ...

Another time i went on blind date , the guy was from a different town, when he got here he announced he wanted to sleep with me , i refused and ran into another bar to get away from him, where i was sort of rescued by a French guy ...he was here working , well we became a couple and i fell in love with him ...until his wife phoned to tell me he was married , !! what a disaster ..he had lied to me .
Another time in Israel , an arab guy , climbed up the wall of the hotel , id said one word to him in reception and remember he said he was from Tiberius ..My room was up on the top floor and i was with my mum ...he got on the balcony and tried to come through the sliding door ..each day hed be sitting on the floor outsidfe the room or hiding in the nearby laundry room ..he folloed me evrywhere around the resort ...we told reception and they gave us an armed gaurd outside the room ..on the same holiday there was an army helicopter hovering the door where open and a couple wher having sex on the floor of the helicopter , the spotlights beemed at the helicopter , very interesting but not expecting it ...it was in Eliat ....ive had some stanger things happen but i think those are best left unsaid...now if you want to call me Private Benjamin ...i dont mind

Gee what a lot of um, stupid mistakes you've made? Never mind i am sure you have learnt from them all.

Yeah, being as stupid as you, but telling everyone I'm Chandlers Wish, if you wish for advice perhaps on how to overcome i don't know, jealousy? Sadness,? Wrong moves, i will again be here.

Because that is they type of person i am.... Love helping lost souls, or ones whom are totally totally, .... Continuation of married Men? I never knew that, only well the poor things you went through STI< rape, the things you posted, oh 1) married man, i recall, not what you are mentioning here?

Gee, i wish you would understand that you need to work it out?

You need to "not trust" instead of advising others on their love life? Perhaps you need to see a common problem in yourself, a common thread.

I feel for you truly, wish i could advise you but at 40, it's a bit hard i feel..
I am sure that you can seek the help you need.

And i am sure we will help if we can, as you posted your whoes.

CW sorry R......ic.