I can say that we all wish to look good because we feel that is an asset. We have inherited this idea of beauty from our ancestors. Everything must be in proportion was the motto of the earlier human society. This has stunted growth of many promising careers. Those who do not look stunning feel inferior. But that should not happen because not everybody gives importance to looks. Some of us do that, but not all of us. Anyway are you keen to befriend a person who ignores intelligence and is concerned only about looks? I do not think you would do that.

For most of us, it is the personality that attracts. The best looking person who looks awkward while walking will not attract any positive attention. Personality has many ingredients. The way you walk, the style in which you sit. Your talking style matters quite a lot. If somebody has a loud voice, no romance can happen. Use of tone is very important. It is true with choice of words. Those who picture with words are powerful creators. They can attract attention of any person. Look at your personality before deciding that you are not good dating material and don't deserve the best.