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CHANDLERS WISH · 11-30-2008, 03:11 AM

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Originally Posted by crzyredhead21

Yeah, I had an ex that liked to shower afterwards as well. It didnt bother me because I'm kind of a roll over and fall asleep kind of lady after sex anyways..lol.

I do like the "man scent" but i also like the freshly showered smell too... hmmmmmmm... cant decide!

It is a 50/50 hey? Kind of like if you are into your man, doesn't matter...

Well, I remember, it was way long ago and I've got worse with age, only in dreaming sad.....

For now.

CW

**mjcobxx** · 12-01-2008, 05:48 AM

We normally shower afterward.unless we are taking a shower together then we seem to start things in there, head to the bedroom then go back into the shower. It works.

Pimune · 02-20-2009, 03:04 AM

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Originally Posted by webycricky

This was a topic that came up in my other thread, so I thought I'd post about it.

Anyway, my boyfriend jumps up and showers after sex. He says it makes him feel gross and sticky. It does kind of kill the intimacy, I will admit, but I never really thought that much of it. I read an interesting article suggesting various reasons for showering after sex. Most of the reasons were cleanliness reasons, and such. My bf is a total neat freak so it's not that big of a surprise that he would want to clean off.

Posters talked about the issue a little bit in my other thread, so I'm opening this one up to opinions on the subject. Anyone ever had an ex who did this, or been in this situation? Share experiences.

Showering immediately after sex is the fear of intimacy IMHO

skyhawk · 02-20-2009, 08:29 PM

Don't know that I've ever showered after sex, so obviously I'm not too concerned about it. I think it ruins the intimacy. For some it probably makes it better. I certainly don't look at it as being clean or unclean.

Now 1 thing I think is nice tho is If a man takes into consideration along with his SO of having Nice Clean sheets on the bed before having a daily routine if you will or whatever the routine might be.

dontcomp · 03-16-2009, 11:57 PM

I'm a clean freak, and if theres a slight possibility of sex going on at the end of the date, I make sure there is nothing on my end to raise an eyebrow. This has bugged me for 15 years plus. I was dating someone once every three months for about 2 1/2 years every time without fail he ran to the shower after sex no cuddling, conversation and yes we used a condomn i asked him about this and never got a straight answer more like an "i don't know" kind of answer. Any comments on this guys?

Khalifah · 01-13-2010, 12:12 PM

Good Day All,

"If a man has intercourse with his wife and wants to come back to her a second time, he should take a shower because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “If any one of you has intercourse with his wife then wants to repeat it, let him take a shower ’ between the two (actions), for it is more energizing for the second time.”

This is recommended, not obligatory; if he is able to take a shower between the two actions, this is better, because of the speech of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went around his wives one day (visited them in their houses and had intercourse with each) and did shower in this one’s house and in this one’s house. He (Abu Rafi`) said: I said to him, “Messenger of Allah, why do you not do one ghusl?” He said, “This is cleaner and better and purer.”

03-16-2009, 11:57 PM	#15
dontcomp Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1	I don't get it! I'm a clean freak, and if theres a slight possibility of sex going on at the end of the date, I make sure there is nothing on my end to raise an eyebrow. This has bugged me for 15 years plus. I was dating someone once every three months for about 2 1/2 years every time without fail he ran to the shower after sex no cuddling, conversation and yes we used a condomn i asked him about this and never got a straight answer more like an "i don't know" kind of answer. Any comments on this guys?

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12-01-2008, 05:48 AM	#12
mjcobxx Gold Contributor 500+ Posts Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 573 Blog Entries: 5	We normally shower afterward.unless we are taking a shower together then we seem to start things in there, head to the bedroom then go back into the shower. It works.

02-20-2009, 08:29 PM	#14
skyhawk Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: USA Posts: 5	Don't know that I've ever showered after sex, so obviously I'm not too concerned about it. I think it ruins the intimacy. For some it probably makes it better. I certainly don't look at it as being clean or unclean. Now 1 thing I think is nice tho is If a man takes into consideration along with his SO of having Nice Clean sheets on the bed before having a daily routine if you will or whatever the routine might be.

01-13-2010, 12:12 PM	#16
Khalifah Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 1	Good Day All, "If a man has intercourse with his wife and wants to come back to her a second time, he should take a shower because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “If any one of you has intercourse with his wife then wants to repeat it, let him take a shower ’ between the two (actions), for it is more energizing for the second time.” This is recommended, not obligatory; if he is able to take a shower between the two actions, this is better, because of the speech of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) went around his wives one day (visited them in their houses and had intercourse with each) and did shower in this one’s house and in this one’s house. He (Abu Rafi`) said: I said to him, “Messenger of Allah, why do you not do one ghusl?” He said, “This is cleaner and better and purer.”