If a girl you like is telling you stuff like "i have a huge headache today ect.." or "I'm waiting at a bus station for 1 hours already ...".

Basically she's telling me some of her small problem...

Should I respond by comforting her? or just crack a joke about it?

I've been known to try and please others too hard, and I know it's a huge turn off to women, so I don't want to step on the wrong path again.

among my friends, I've always been known as the "problem solver", any problem they come to me (except for relationship problems since they all know I suck at it). But to a girl, I don't think a problem solver is a good romantic candidate