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Old 08-29-2008, 07:00 PM
Olivia-Grace
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Yes a good piece and thanks for that but if i may say that i do disagree with a large proportion of women and men who have obesity and a lot do tend to use for example ..i suffered sexual abuse ..or its my glands ? actually the truth about this matter is people who are LIKE and enjoy food apart from the people who binge and purge which is more of a punishment ..the eating then vomiting ..bulemia !! now the thing that i generally observe here in the UK is that daughters of overwieght mothers ..also tend to be overwieght ...and it does run in families the siblings ..not 100per cent but in general yes ..it does ..although overwieght in UK is considerably smaller size to what is seen as obese in United States ..uk obese at say ...uk size 12 upwards . the siblings with overwieght parents ..its jsut generally poor diet ..not enough vegetables ..and the mother not knowing how to feed her family a healthy balanced diet including fish ..fresh fish ..many children living on burgers and chips just as the parents are eating plus cream cakes and sweets ...perhaps in cases like this the mother will have given birth at a young age ..unmarried or perhaps have more than one or two fathers to each child ..and be on a low income ..education plays a huge part in this ...they may have past on anxiety or mental instability to thier child or the child will be missing a dad if there is divorce ..that is a reason it happens but there is a general lot ofexcuses for this in the UK we tend to be a bit harsher on this matter ..lots of young girls drink so much beer and eat junk food they are seriously at risk of a stroke within thier first pregnancy ..which could be anything from age 22 upwards or indeed too obese to carry a child or at risk of a lot of medical problems ... i think with this everybody does have problems now and again ..its how you deal with these problems and your own will power and determination and not wanting to give excuses or find something to shift the blame too . Exercise a moderate amount of a well balanced diet is the key and learningto have respect for yourself and appearence ..not what others want you to be but taking pride in your own appearence like one should do ...
Can i just add a little bit more to this please ? yep ..its a little like ..where to do draw the line with sympathy lets just take sex addicts ? why do they get "addicted" i mean they love the adrenaline the thrill the sex for gods sakes ! but when they have thier fill or they are no longer able to function normally due to either sti or outporning themselves or realizing suddenly its destructive for those they really want to be close to they seek help ..but part of that help is admitting ..yes i liked or indeed i loved what i was doing i got pleasure from it ...same for alcoholics ...first steps admitting i liked drinking i didnt always do it for the right reasons but i enjoyed the high or the way i though it made things better ...ame for dug abusers ..they enjoyed getting wasted ! or doing a line of coke until thier nose starts to cave in and they carnt have sex anymore without some pill ...it all start when you go over the line ..its an addiction and like anything else ..you have to be aware and ADMIT thats what happening before you get to far into it ...but people have problems everyone does but you know try not to let yourself get any deeper or put your health at risk by not being stronger ..
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